Monday, October 13, 2008

How To PickUp Women Online By Avoiding This 1 Mistake

If you want to learn how to pick-up women online then you need to learn about the importance of your online profile content.

I’m basically referring to those little boxes in your profile that lists your interests, hobbies, or anything about you.

Let me first tell you about one of my friends who just recently took up online dating.

I gave him some basic tips, nothing too extraordinary and he started making a profile. He messaged three good-looking girls and got three messages back.

The good thing is at least he got replies. I thought he wasn’t even going to get that far. The bad thing is the girls didn’t seem all that terribly interested in him. They didn’t ask him many questions in the replies. Two of the girls definitely tried to reciprocate interest, and the other did not at all.

How To Pick-Up Women Online: Profile Info

So he asked for my help. I took a quick glance at his profile. There were three things wrong with his profile. Firstly he was giving away too much information in his online profile content.

He was basically listing almost everything about himself. Everything that had to do with his job, how many tattoos he had, all the places he’s been in his life. He put down everything.

Let’s look at his profile from a female perspective. First of all, she has so much stuff to read that she doesn't even care about. The details, although they might be interesting, are not to be put on the profile content section because it’s too redundant to read in this context.

It may be appropriate for a phone conversation or real-life conversation, but people want concise information on the internet.

The fact that he wrote about his tattoos wasn’t bad but he just went into disgusting detail that no one needed to know.

People just simply don’t care about that type of detail at this point.

Not only that, but it simply just kills one of the most important aspects of picking up women.

How to Pick-Up Women Online: Mystery

Some men just ruin their chances by giving away way too much and not creating a sufficient level of mystery that keeps women interested. Remember K.I.S.S. Keep It Simple Sweetheart.

You also eliminate the opportunity for small-talk by giving away too much small-talk information. This is what my friend really did wrong here. He eliminated any amount of small talk that women just seem to love.

I’m talking about questions like, what you like to do? Where have you traveled to? What are you taking in school? What kind of hobbies do you enjoy? Things like that.

Well, if he addressed all of those issues, there isn’t much of a point in asking those questions, is there? There is a certain way to tell your information in such a way that it doesn’t destroy the “allure”, the “enigma”, and the “mystery.”

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